October 11th was my 10 year anniversary of being out of the closet. I came out as a lesbian when I was 17 years old. My journey has been a bit rocky, but I have no regrets. Coming out was one of the best things I could ever do for myself. When I was 17, I  was barely diagnosed with depression and anxiety and life was …

I am truly the happiest I have been in a very long time. It feels nice to finally have some stability and it has shown that my hard work of working on myself has paid off. The last 5 years haven't been easy and the beginning of this year was rough. Now with it being closer to the end I am happy to report this yea…

If you are going to tell someone to "get over" your old relationship how about deleting social media posts when asked to. Keeping up posts with the caption that says "we're besties" is weird. Especially after being told you want nothing to do with someone. How about you get over the relat…

I came across this new belief system that I have never heard of. So naturally I googled what Nihilism is. I am pretty shocked by my findings. I am not the person to judge anyone based on what they believe, but this does not make any sense to me. So what this is telling me is that if you consider yourself a nihil…

The infamous line of “all I did was ghosted you”, was said to me over messages. It’s the most infuriating thing when people don’t take accountability and villainize you. I will admit maybe I shouldn’t have cussed Tim out but I did. I hadn’t been that angry in a very long time. I’m not proud of losing my shit, but to m…

I cannot believe today is my 27th birthday! It doesn't feel like it's been 10 years since I turned17. That is what has tripped me up the most about today. I had a great day. I went shopping with my mom, chatted with family, and went out for dinner. I am grateful for all of my incredible friends, family, co -…

Experiences shape us as a whole, for better or for worse. Experiencing traumatic events can take a toll on us. I have personal experience to the affects of trauma and how it affects your body and mind. But I have also experienced the beauty in healing and accepting the lessons the traumatic event has taught me. It…

The first month of 2024 is almost over and that is kind of crazy. Time just flies when you are working, doing school, and just having fun. 2024 has been so far so great. I just realized I hadn't given any review for how 2023 was for me. It was such a great year as well as a year filled with trials. The good …